Let's put that together for a minute. He goes to Thailand and just somehow meets a sex worker. Where? How? He doesn't know anyone there so it's not like a friend introduced them.
Like a bumbling thief who leaves a trail of blood and cash up the stairs to his own flat, Lloyd Evans left his own sloppy trail and I'm not even getting into him spreading his "seed" all over the bed linens at his hotel in Pa Tong.
He got caught with suggestive pics when he was in Texas, so he has to be a next level idiot to get caught again with the shared iCloud. As much as Jabba the Hutt likes scrolling, it's a simple Google search to find out how to not use a shared iCloud. He feigns ignorance in the 12 January 2022 email to Dijana, but then tells her he's not ashamed of the pics she found.
Translation: He wanted her to find them. It was his middle finger to her, as you remember their fight in Croatia was about him using the family car to pick up Tinder dates and sex workers. He absolutely lost his shit at this and went off to Thailand. Translation: You didn't like me using the family car to pick up women? Fine. I'll fly to the other side of the planet and see women. Oh, did I leave that for you to find on the iCloud? Whoopsie! What he didn’t expect was his wife to stand up for herself for the first fucking time in her life and tell him it’s over. He’s so used to manipulating her into accepting his abuse.
Further evidence of his doing this on purpose is him unnecessarily naming the sex worker/date by name, even going through the minutia of schooling Dijana on the correct pronunciation of his hook-up’s name. Who does this? Men who want to humiliate their wives.
HE WANTED HER TO SEE THIS! He wanted her to see how much of a ladies man he was and how if she wasn't interested in a open marriage, fuck it, he won't have any problem going it alone.
And who the fuck dresses as a hotel maid? A tourist on holiday in Thailand? No, he even stated he didn’t know if she was a hotel maid in real life, indicating that it was a local. Then, oddly enough, this woman who had a hotel maid outfit with her in Pa Tong needs to make her flight out of town.
Did she remember to pack her hotel maid costume with her? Hope so. Don’t want her to get sacked do we?
Simplest explanation: This was a lie. Cara was a local sex worker and so we’re her friends. He wanted to make Dijana jealous by thinking he just met her there as a fellow tourist.
Which brings us to the identity of the "date". Cara, pronounced as "Sarah". And her friends too! So far we know that she likes to dress as a hotel maid and has a thing for overweight foreigners. Check out this exchange where he carefully states for the record that he did not pay his sex worker date directly.
This might be correct, as there are "date" packages available in Thailand, and since Cara had friends with her, he probably chose the expensive "date + friends" package. He's either directly lying to Charlotte (quite possible) or he paid with the credit card prior to his arrival to Thailand, paying the company she works for and not the sex worker directly. That's what the Rent-a-date packages there cater to: Lonely men who want to think they are partying with girls who want to be with him. The time and place of meeting are arranged beforehand and the sex worker and her friends strike up a conversation and start flirting with him. Precisely what he paid for.